It is important for women to understand not to try and get a man to talk before he is ready.
A little while ago a native american discussed with me this topic.she shared
that in her tribe mothers would instruct young women getting married to remember
that when a man is stressed he would withdraw into his cave.
She was told not to take it personally because it would
happen to her from time to time.
It did not mean he didn't love her.
They assured her that he would come back to her ,but most importantly
they warned her never to follow him to his cave.
If she did,she would get burned by the dragon who protected the cave.

Never go into a man's cave
or you will get burned by the dragon!